What is anal sex?
Anal sex is sex in which the anus is penetrated by inserting the penis or, for example, a vibrator/dildo or finger into the anus. Although anal sex was previously mainly practiced by gay men, men and women (straight men) also have anal sex together. Anal sex is also known as bareback or ass fucking.

Opinions on anal sex differ some like this form of sex because the penis is squeezed more and they like to feel something inside. Others don’t want anal sex because it can hurt (especially the first time) or find it unhygienic.
Always important for safe and pleasant butt sex is the use of plenty of lubricants. Many lubricants are suitable for this, but lubricants with additives such as menthol (for a tingling effect) are not recommended for anal use.

An anal lubricant is a lubricant that is especially suitable for anal sex. The anal lubricant has several aspects that come in handy during sex. All anal lubricants naturally have a sliding effect, which makes it even more enjoyable. Because most lubricants are made on a silicone basis, the effect of the sliding power is longer. In addition, some anal lubricants or sprays have a slightly anesthetic or extra relaxing effect. View all anal lubricants and sprays here and choose the product with the characteristics that suit you best.

How to anally finger?
The anus and the area around it are very sensitive and can therefore be a nice place to touch. Stroke the anus with your finger to get used to the feeling. In a boy/man, the piece of skin between the anus and balls, the perineum, is a very sensitive and nice spot. Moisten the finger with saliva or lubricant. Especially for the first time, it is important to caress the area around the anus before putting your finger in the anus.

Tips for anal sex.
Start carefully during foreplay. Never just stick your finger in your partner’s anus. Build it up slowly by first massaging and stroking. Move your hands a little further towards the buttocks and slowly towards the anus. When you notice that the right moment is there, you can start stroking the anus.
Take your time and get yourself in a comfortable position.
Pay close attention to how your partner reacts. If you notice that she or he likes it, you can carefully build up the pace. If you feel that the sphincter is relaxed enough, you can insert a second finger.

Anus sex, What is it?
An anus sex orgasm is exactly what it sounds like: an orgasm achieved through anal stimulation.
This can then be done by touching, licking, fingering, penetrating, and more. If it feels right, anything is possible!

Are you the recipient?
Then make sure you’re relaxed and excited, especially if you’re trying it for the first time.
Some tips to help you get started with anal sex:
Treat yourself to something erotic. The more excited you are, the easier and tastier it is. Watch anus sex porn, read an erotic story or fantasize.
A warm bath before anus sex helps to loosen your muscles and increase blood flow to your sphincter. Wash your erogenous zones well and give your anus a lot of attention when drying.
Practice with a butt plug. Sex toys can help you get a sense of anus sex before you start dating your partner. Use a lot of lube, especially as a beginner. There is no such thing as too much lube when it’s on
the anus sex arrives. It also benefits safety.

Are you the giver of anus sex?
Take good care of your hands. There is nothing worse than a nail that is too long or broken and then becomes just a little too painful. Short nails also mean less room for dirt and bacteria to hide.
Wash your hands thoroughly and make sure all bacteria are gone before inserting even one finger into the anus. You can also wear latex gloves and put in some cotton balls for extra comfort.
Use a condom. Condoms can be used for all forms of anal sex. Put them on your finger or if you are penetrating with the penis on your penis. If you want to use your tongue, a condom can also be cut open and like a
flap be used.

Rimming.
Also known as analingus or anilingus. Use the tip of your tongue to tease the ass cheeks before diving in between them. Swirl your tongue around the anus for a moment, then push the tip into the opening and shoot it in and out.

Ass to mouth. (ATM)
The ATM is pretty disgusting for some but I love to watch these videos.
Especially during an FFM threesome scene. Fucking one girl in the ass pull out and get a blowjob from the other girl. Fucking hot.

With your fingers.
Slowly insert your lubricated finger into the anus and curl your finger upward in a “come here” motion. Gradually increase the depth and speed – and try inserting a second finger if desired. Once you have a depth and
Once you’ve found a pace that feels right, continue with the movement and let the fun grow.
circle. Rub the pad of your finger into the A-spot or P-spot area in a circular motion. Start circling the area slowly, gradually increasing the pace at your partner’s request.
Simulated vibrations. A little heavy on the wrist, but if you accelerate a move fast enough, you can simulate vibrations.
With your penis, a strap-on, or other sex toy
Depth. No two anus are exactly alike, so play with depth to figure out how deep you need to go to hit the right spot. Do it slowly and carefully.
vibrations. You will find vibrating massagers with different vibration and pulse settings. Try out the different combos to see what works best. Raise the vibration when the climax is near.

The clitoris during anus sex.
clitoris. You can show the clitoris some love during anal play, whether you are the giver or the receiver. Use your hand, fingers, or a toy to slide up and down and back and forth across the clitoris.
Vaginal. A finger or toy can provide some double penetration action to penetrate the vagina while also penetrating the ass, you need some experience.

Conclusion:
Achieving an anus orgasm is not for many people, but if you are one of the lucky ones, enjoy it and don’t be ashamed.