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Knowing how to make yourself cum and how to finger yourself is one of the most important skills a woman can have. This makes you more aware of how you want to deal with sex. Let’s be honest,
almost all of us do it, and it’s certainly not taboo to talk about it. How to finger yourself is super nice for many women during sex with their partner. But sometimes women don’t dare to talk about masturbation.
They are ashamed to say that they sometimes play with their vagina or clitoris. But why?
Women watch porn too.
Some women watch porn while masturbating. And who cares? No one will know that you secretly watch porn. Some women even watch lesbian scenes while fingering while
being heterosexual. Keep in mind that if you watch porn while fingering, you will cum much faster. So if you have a lot of time and want to enjoy it for a long time, we do not recommend it. Then let your imagination determine what you like.
And if you get excited about that beautiful man you met yesterday, then you can fantasize about it, your partner really can’t see inside your head.
Vibrators and your fingers.
A handy tip if you are learning to finger yourself, buy a vibrator because they are fun and feel great, whatever you put this sex toy against they are wonderful when you use them next to your clitoris.
The G spot.
If you haven’t found it yet, don’t spend all your time looking for it, not every woman has the G-spot. At least not every woman can come through the G-spot. Then focus on the other parts of your vagina.
There are so many other tasty places to run your fingers over. Don’t expect to come by just fingering yourself it’s all about the clitoris, that’s where the feeling is.
When you have learned how to finger yourself, you will realize that the clitoris plays a very important role.
Your clitoris.
As you would want a man to tease you when he fingers you, tease yourself!! From very light touching to aggressive rubbing is all fine, but keep switching it up and find the way that works best for you. Usage
possibly two fingers to finger yourself. For example, rub your inner labia so that your outer labia are also gently touched. Teach your partner what you like. A rotating movement around your clit
or just a “come here movement” with 1 finger over your clitoris. Or use 2 hands. 1 to play with your clitoris and the other to insert fingers. If you don’t start to feel anything right away, don’t panic.
It takes time to come especially if you are not immediately excited.
How do you finger a woman?
When done right, fingering can be very important for female pleasure and orgasm. Many women with vulvas cannot have an orgasm just by having penetration. The clitoris needs stimulation to reach the big O.
This is where first-class finger skills come in handy. If you as a man have quick fingers, your wife or girlfriend will adore you. It’s not just about the pleasure of the man in bed.
Clean nails.
Make sure your nails are short and clean. There isn’t a woman who likes being pulled over by dirty nails. And long nails can cause wounds which in turn hurt. The vulva consists of the pubic mound, the inner and outer labia, the clitoris, the vaginal opening, and just below that the perineum. Don’t dive rightinton the woman’s clitoris. This is her most sensitive spot but is not always immediately ready for the big work. Fingering your wife is not a sprint. It can sometimes take up to 15 minutes for a woman to ejaculate. And often a little teasing by stopping for a while is a wonderfully exciting moment. So don’t go straight to her clit, the rest of the vulva deserves some attention too. Touch other parts of the vulva and stroke everything from the inside to the outside to stimulate the clitoris.
Listen!
Listen carefully to your lover’s breathing, she will clearly show when she likes something. And otherwise, you ask her. Communication is the key to fingering. So start slowly and gently and gradually increase the speed and intensity as you move into more sensitive terrain. Determining the right pace is difficult, but once you’ve found it, you’ll feel the labia get a little swollen. This intensifies their arousal, now you can teasingly run a finger over her clit. Is her breathing going up? then you may give more attention to the clitoris because it is about to come. Don’t you dare stop now keep touching her now until she cums wonderfully moaning? Do not be alarmed if a woman then starts to cry. Some come so intensely when you do it right that they cry with pleasure.